grateful – dankbaar – fakafeta’i

It’ll be a New Year – Since MMXXVI can’t be either happy or unhappy and since I want to wish you lots, it’s gotta be a HAPPY NEW YEAR, so let’s do it this way; I wish you great health, a good life, and the love of your family for 2026!

Now some coffee, well-earned I might add. With Kirstin, Derek, and Kellen driving up this weekend, Marcia and I dutifully did some ‘straightening’ of our little abode. Even Marcia appreciated that she barely recognized my office and its Pin Ball machine (cleaned, sitting/waiting fully loaded and ready for at least 30 games).

The Texas group is always hopeful of finding some snow. This week we’ve had a steady week of mid sixties temperature. Next week there’ll be a dramatic temperature drop, but NO snow.

This warmish morning there was no need for a steaming mug of coffee, just a tasty one.

Hair snipping – Yesterday I realized that I was ‘mucho’ past due getting shorn. My usual go-to joint was closed all day. I then remembered that on the other side of the parking lot is a Sports Clip franchise. Before I headed for the place I scanned their on line list of reviews. Several of those were problematic!

That’s when I discovered that I had run into a ‘contronym’. A contronym references a word that can have opposite meanings. In my case I with the way my hair might “get clipped” and if unhappy with the result, feel that “I got clipped” in my pocketbook. Did you realize you just read the Word of the Day?

Christmas Dinner –– Since our family Holiday gathering will not occur till the coming mid-week, Marcia and I, a pair of ‘fogies,’ were spending the day alone. For the first time I realized that gone were the olden days where the house would be filled with the sound many shrill young voices.

Basically, I love shrill little voices. It even gets better when it’s almost mandatory to spend half the day on the floor assembling toys, shoving toys around, and joining in any number of table-now-played-on-the-floor games.

But, before you wipe a tear, we were invited to enjoy a Tongan Christmas Dinner with Adrianne and Tevita and kids, plus their other invited guests; all Tongan. Barely a word of English spoken it’s amazing how we as humans can have a great time communicating, communicating through laughter, hands, an occasional word, signs, gestures, body language, and even through a sip of adult beverage.

We had a wonderful afternoon. Thanks so much to both of you, to Vai and Vili, and our new Tongan friends

Yesterday, Dec 26, 1776 – is now a barely noticed turning point in our nation’s history. General George Washington and his motley crew, called the Continental Army, made it to Trenton, NJ. Once there, the day after Christmas they caught the 1,400 Hessian soldiers guarding the city completely off guard (it seems they’d celebrated somewhat too much the day before).

That became the first real battle the British lost. They stormed back the next day and Washington’s troops had to withdraw. Had he first crossed the Delaware River he most likely would have had the armaments to keep the upper hand. Luckily, a short few days later there was another victory at Princeton.

But that victory energized the troops and generated morale without which many likely would not have re-enlisted when their tenure expired that New Year’s Day. Had Washington lost much of his army the possible outcome of our eventual independence could have been seriously in doubt.

It also proves the point that whenever planning, in whatever setting, school, business, military, plan to protect against the worst outcome – in Washington’s case it was as simple as crossing a river to maintain control over his armament supply.

Luminary Night – Last Sunday was absolutely perfect for the annual Neighborhood Luminary walk. I did the walk solo and ended up sitting a bit by a front yard firepit at one of our former neighbors. Soon some others joined and Ken P, our host, came up with a tray filed with mugs of hot Lavendar herbal tea.

In the middle of the chit-chat someone pointed out a full-grown Fox walking casually by, no more than 20 feet from where we were sitting. Keep in mind we’re just 3 miles from the heart of a major city.

Actually, it was one of those happenstance events where you hated to leave. Had it not been for former neighbor Rosalie v N , who with some sight issues needed to get home. So I volunteered to escort her.

The lighted house on the left side of the attached picture is our former house. The other shows the reverse side of the Corner of Chaos and Mayhem.

The Egg Nog Jog – Last Saturday’s 5K had me finish 1st in my age category, walking category which including a total of 10 flights of steps climbed, a 16.37 pace for a total 51:36 chip time.

Life is AMAZING!

Dirk

BONUS POINTS:

Which of the following lasting expressions from years past are still in use today? Still in use, even if the original meanings have shifted in modern times. Two are incorrect.

1) Dial a number
2) Blackballed
3) Ate and left no crumbs
4) Roll up the window
5) Burning the Midnight Oil
6) Air Jail
7) CC

Last week answer – #3, “Life on the Mississippi”